Fear of Success

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LIFE COACHING Mind Map on Fear of Success, created by wezzbox on 03/05/2013.
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Fear of Success
  1. SIGNS
    1. Feeling guilty about any success because friends/family/co-workers haven't had same
      1. Don't tell others about accomplishments
        1. Avoid or PROCRASTINATE on big projects, especially those that could lead to recognition
          1. Frequently compromise own goals or agendas to avoid conflict in a group or family
            1. SELF-SABOTAGE work or dreams by convincing self that you're not good enough to achieve them
              1. Feel, subconsciously, that you don't deserve to enjoy success
                1. Believe, that if you do succeed, you won't be able to sustain it
                  1. eventually you will fail, and end up in a worse place
                    1. so why bother?!
                2. CAUSES
                  1. Fear of what success will bring
                    1. loneliness
                      1. new enemies
                        1. isolation from family
                          1. longer working hours
                            1. being asked for favours
                              1. being asked for money
                              2. Afraid the higher we climb in life the further to fall
                                1. threat of mistakes
                                  1. inevitability of mistakes
                                  2. Fear of what we will have to face
                                    1. added work
                                      1. reponsibiities
                                        1. criticism
                                        2. Fear of relationships suffering
                                          1. friends and family will act with jealousy and cynicism
                                            1. loss of the one's we love
                                            2. Fear that accomplishing goals may cause regret
                                              1. that we didn't act sooner
                                                1. that what we have gone for is not what we thought it would be
                                                  1. disappointment
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